I actually have something to say about this controversy.
I don't mind the marriage event. I am glad that same sex couples were married publicly and with much joy. And I am happy for them. I am just not sure that Grammy Awards is a proper place for mass weddings. No one does it during a football game, for example. Maybe saying "there is a newlywed couple (or two) in the audience today, lets hear the applause" would have been much much more appropriate. But that's just me.